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WOW ! you are the gift that keeps on giving. Prove that I am lying. Prove that women are not sexually harassed on the streets of China. You are not a woman so because you have not experienced this it seems to really anger you and upset you when someone recounts a personal experience. or is it because i DARED to use the word 'China' ? Is this really all about how China is perceived in the world and Chinese 'hurt feelings' ? It really seems like it the more you persist. do you have to balls to make such 'demands' face to face?
May 19, 2021 15:48 Report Abuse
the more you 'demand' the more it seems like you want to masturbate with pictures of me - i should be flattered i suppose. THANK YOU !
May 19, 2021 15:50 Report Abuse
now i am 'mentally ill' great addition to the name calling. Bless you. You really ARE triggered. You are a fine example of a man, harassing women who stand up to you. And all you have is name calling. I thought you were not going to respond to me again - but maybe you are so triggered (or get sexual pleasure from this I don't know) I am just entertained. I really think you would not have the bravery to repeat all you have posted online to me if we met face to face, whereas I have no problem dealing with bullies. PLEASE KEEP IT UP !!
May 19, 2021 15:59 Report Abuse
I doubt ECC would let me post the 'evidence' deeming it 'pornographic' or is the 'evidence' for your own (ahem) gratification? Thanks for your concern and 'internet psychology analysis' - how many minutes did you spend researching online ? Kudos also for persistently ignoring my questions as it really seems you are unable engage in a civil conversation - well played there. When I am on holiday I find my amusement where i can - especially when the weather is bad, so thank you for helping us all understand how Asian men avoid difficult realities - though attempted bullying and abuse. You really have not disappointed when it comes to showing how Asians avoid, name-call, abuse and whine when faced with an opponent who refused to be quiet, as ALL women should refuse to be quiet when faced with bullies. I can see that you really did not bother to read all I posted - but then that is very common amongst Asians who are looking to be offended. I am not bothered in the least by anything you write, and do feel some pity for you needing to become abusive when faced with an uncomfortable truth. You can call me anything you like, as we have a (childs) saying here: "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me". Your abusive language does nothing but stick to you and impacts your reputation. I REALLY get the impression you want to hit me given the opportunity. I would relish a face to face encounter with you - I have had to deal with bigger bullies than you and have done so successfully. are you that brave or are you only brave behind a key-board?
May 19, 2021 16:24 Report Abuse
I LOVED how I was sexually harassed on a daily basis in China, unlike all the other countries i have worked in where the local men know that is an unacceptable way to behave. Well done China - this is what "5000 years of culture" produces !! Also how total strangers would try to touch me (usually from behind), try 'upskirting' me or take my photo without my permission. Of course I am a 'bad foreigner' for complaining about any of this, and it was not as if i dressed other than very modestly in comparison to local women ! Well done China for all these unique aspects to life and blaming the foreigner ! Truly a unique country and 'culture'
May 11, 2021 14:52 Report Abuse
@sorrel: You should cut them (to Chinese) some slack. Most of them came out of the woodwork in the last 20-years. By my estimates, they'll need some 20 generations to start to behave as normal humans. Chinese could learn about decent behaviour from HK-ers, but they won't. They'll try to submit them whoever will remain living in HK, of course. 'effin retards ..TIC!
May 12, 2021 23:39 Report Abuse
@White Cat, Chinese people have been exposed to international norms for the last 30 + years. To be honest any MAN would know that sexually harassing women and girls is not acceptable - and 'culture' is no excuse. It is laughable that there are still people who think women 'deserve' abuse.
May 13, 2021 00:02 Report Abuse
You felt an abuse as a woman, and I learned during my stay in China that for Chinese couples there is always desired male offspring over female ... How about that and +30 years ... to international norms? Any Chinese could see international norms widely expressed in HK ..., butT ... RIP HK!
May 13, 2021 04:09 Report Abuse
not really 'abuse', just constant low-level harassment such as inappropriate touching by strangers (mostly men), 'up-skirting' which then meant i did not wear dresses/skirts during summer weather, obscene comments (i can understand Chinese) made when I had walked by. As i said, the majority of foreign women i knew had the same experiences. Such is the state of Chinese 'manhood' that they seem to have to 'prove' themselves to each other. Adults (men) know not to behave like this. But apparently, foreign women 'deserve' to be treated like this (according to brave posters such as 'Kenneth), especially if we object to it !!! ;o)
May 13, 2021 07:04 Report Abuse
Sexually harassed on a daily basis.... Man, doesn't sound like China to me. But I feel bad for you.
May 13, 2021 10:37 Report Abuse
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