Parents Planning Second Child Write ‘Guarantee of Love’ to Daughter

Parents Planning Second Child Write ‘Guarantee of Love’ to Daughter
Jan 29, 2015 By eChinacities.com

Since the amendments to the One Child Policy rolled out there have been several disgruntled children around China. In order to reassure their daughter, one couple planning to have a second child have written and signed a document guaranteeing that they would always love her first and foremost.

The mother posted the note on Weibo, signed by her and her husband. Underneath, her daughter has written “OK!” and signed her name.

The parents found they had a problem when they told their daughter that they wanted to give her a little brother or sister. She was apparently very upset and opposed the idea, worrying that they wouldn’t love her anymore.

The parents, worried for their daughter’s mental health, decided to wait a while until she was OK with it. However, the eight-year-old girl came round to the idea when she saw pictures of another family’s second child. However, she had one condition- her parents had to write her a guarantee, saying that they would also love her most.

The introduction of the ‘Two Child Policy” has caused worry among psychology experts as to how this generation of ‘little emperors’ will react to the sudden possibility of a rival for their parents’ and grandparents’ affections.

This issue came into the spotlight last week when the horrific story of a mother who was forced to get an abortion when her daughter threatened suicide if another child was born.

Source: Tencent

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Irfan100

IF the fertility rate of any civilization is below 2.1 per couple after 30 years they start their decline and it is irreversible . And china is below that ratio . After all one child policy give china an imbalance in gander, Gays are more then before. BUT one best thing I see in chinese people they love old parents and also love their only 1 child . If you are in china you will always see that grand mother is holding her grand child .

Feb 01, 2015 09:16 Report Abuse

nzteacher80

I can't help but think that this spoiled child would have a different attitude towards opposing her parents wishes if one or two fatal beatings had been administered to her earlier.

Jan 30, 2015 14:20 Report Abuse

andrew79

Fatal beatings never did me any harm.

Feb 02, 2015 11:11 Report Abuse

Guest2368048

How stupid can these people be? Wait till the spoiled brat wave that letter in front of his/her younger brother/sister when s/he is old enough to understand.

Jan 30, 2015 09:24 Report Abuse

sorrel

If the second child is a son, the parents might change their tune.

Jan 29, 2015 22:03 Report Abuse