Kidnapped Yunnan Woman Reunited with Family After 20 Years

Kidnapped Yunnan Woman Reunited with Family After 20 Years
Dec 20, 2012 By eChinacities.com

Editor’s note: The following was translated and edited from an article that appeared on the Chinese news portal Sohu.com. It concerns a young woman who was kidnapped, sold and taken far away from her home in Yunnan as an 11-year-old girl. 20 years and three “husbands” later, the woman was recently reunited with her family.

Ying broke down in tears when she heard her family’s voice on the phone. 20 years ago, 11-year-old Ying was kidnapped from her home in Yunnan. She was caught repeatedly after multiple escape attempts, married to three “husbands” over two decades, but she never lost hope that she might one day find her family. In late November, Ying entered a police station in central Jiangsu Province and, with help from police officers, was finally reunited with her long-lost family.

Tricked and sold

20 years ago, Ying thought she was on her way to see a matchmaker, unaware that her life was about to be changed forever. After a few sips of water handed to her by the “matchmaker”, Ying blacked out. When she woke up, she was on a train to Henan Province. After arriving she was imprisoned in a dark room, forced to live with a mentally ill man for 6-7 years. She also gave birth to a child during this time, although she always dreamed of escaping. One night, seeing her chance to climb out the window, Ying made a break for it, clutching the small amount of money she’d amassed over the years. She managed to get all the way to Shandong, where she met her second husband, and lived with him there for 5-6 years before they moved together to Yangzhou to look for work. As soon as the man found himself with some money, however, he abandoned Ying. Later, with the help of her workmates, Ying met and married her current husband and moved to Jiangdu city to work. 

Hoping and searching

Having never attended a day of school in her life, Ying couldn’t clearly remember where her home was. She only knew that it was somewhere in Yunnan, with a name that sounded like “Laba”. Still, Ying never gave up hope that she might one day find her find her family. While under constant supervision in Henan, Ying had no way to find her family. Even after escaping to Shandong, Ying was ridiculed and intimidated by her second “husband” and others whenever she tried to search for her family, forcing her to give up the idea for the time being. After arriving in Jiangdu, with Ying’s husband working in the gravel pits, and her son attending preschool, Ying’s life was a bit more stable and thoughts of finding her family grew stronger.

Not long ago, Ying’s son became ill and was checked into People’s Hospital in Jiangdu. After doctors and nurses learned of Ying’s troubled economic situation, everyone pitched in to pay for the child’s immediate health care (about 2,000 RMB). Ying felt a sense of long-lost family in this warm gesture, and opened up to the doctors and nurses about her past. Ying’s sad story garnered sympathy from the staff, who encouraged her to seek help at the local police station. A kind-hearted nurse even accompanied her there. 

Lost and found  

Though her tale was long and rambling, Jiangdu police understood the gravity of the situation. Seeing how much this small-statured woman had suffered in one lifetime, they immediately made it clear they were going to do everything they could to help her find her family.

Because of her lack of education, Ying was unable to write or speak the name of her hometown, or the names of her family members; she only knew she was a member of the “Lahu” ethnicity, which the police found out is concentrated around Lancang County in Yunnan Province. After communicating with Lancang police, members of the Jiangdu police eventually pinpointed a location matching the name “Laba”. Officers helped Ying make a video in which she described—using the dialect she dimly remembers—her parents’ names and appearances. Laba authorities used the tearful video to locate an old white-haired couple, who immediately recognized their long-lost daughter. With the help of police, Ying took a telephone call from her parents, her voice choked with emotion, barely able to speak at all for some time. One day later, Ying returned to the police station with a letter of thanks and, using the only way she could think of to express her gratitude, knelt before police and thanked them over and over. Ying’s heart will be warm this winter. Because, after 20 years, her dream of finding her family has finally come true.

Source: sohu.com
 

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lysmens

this is sad story but i fail to understand how an 11 YEAR OLD was on her way to see a match maker,and for that matter ALONE...... the first paragraph says " 20 years ago, 11-year-old Ying was kidnapped from her home in Yunnan. " Then the second goes on to say "20 years ago, Ying thought she was on her way to see a matchmaker". i believe this is not the full story, some facts have been hidden and some facts have been exaggerated.

Apr 07, 2014 00:08 Report Abuse

Amazingchina

I don't understand why some people is treating children as goods to sell,what about their own children be treated as the same? I don't think it is only the matter by lack of education, where is their human moral? Shame for them! Those criminal people generally from henan , Anhui province where are the most poor place in China, they will do everything for money, and I have seen the amount record from China TV channel 12 that they stolen babies and sold to countryside family especially, the programe showed that policemen found out about 200 babies in two monthes that had been sold, although it showed the familiy might love the baby but when baby grow up she/he won't be happy that they are not really belongs to them.(well honestly I have seen an adopted baby are not really have same love from parents as her sister). I am happy the media is more open to let us know the truth, but where is the law for these kind of"animals with human skin"? And maybe people should report more these cases to police, and do not buy children bes they have parents and family , otherwise you are one of criminal as well.

Jan 03, 2013 15:25 Report Abuse

merv1459

Reading this young girl's story and her fight for freedom I really had to hold back the tears. What she has gone through and having her childhood raped from her will live with her for the rest of her life. This young lady needs to be paid compensation for her stolen life and this kind of shit should never ever happen to and child. Chinese parents are a little too lazy to do most things for themselves, and send their children out into this cruel world to do their dirty work for them while they sit in comfprt in their homes. They are only little babies and should be treated and love like babies not dam slaves. You are home now my sweet child and your dream has finally come true because your faith was too strong and if you ever come to Beijing I will give you the education you have missed out on all your life for FREE and also educate your son. All the very best for your life sweetheart Ozzie ABC Education Beijing.

Jan 03, 2013 10:49 Report Abuse

PHYNOD

yh, i am already tearing up. well, thank God she found her family now. many kids including foreign ones are kidnapped daily, chinese law enforcement should be up and doing about this.

Dec 20, 2012 12:56 Report Abuse

laree.lucai82

I think China's law enforcement department need to create other more advanced anti-criminal branches, like an "Chinese FBI" for example.

Dec 20, 2012 08:54 Report Abuse

crimochina

why didn't she go to the police when she was free? is kidnapping women against the law in china? are people aware of it? did her family file a missing persons report? i'm glad she is free but what does this say about chinese law.

Dec 20, 2012 07:43 Report Abuse

wildcat77

A very sad story but with a happy ending!

Dec 20, 2012 00:45 Report Abuse