Lifers: The Motivations of the Long Term Expat

Lifers: The Motivations of the Long Term Expat
Feb 22, 2013 By Mark Turner , eChinacities.com

Many people are perplexed by the long term foreigner in China and their motivations for staying in China a period of many years. The complex reasons behind the seeming inability of some to leave China are best understood after having spent a little while in the country. Here we peer into the mind and motivations of the long term expat in China: what keeps them here, what are the advantages of sticking it out, what on earth are they thinking?

Western people are on the receiving end of a lot of benefits as residents of China. There are a lot of opportunities to do things that you would never accidentally walk into in another country. In China, as a foreigner, it’s quite possible to come across work opportunities just walking down the street or being sat in a restaurant. Jobs seem to virtually drop from out of the sky. One is unlikely to find work as an investment banker through such channels; however there are definitely opportunities in China to earn a decent living, which are just not available back home, particularly in these times of economic hardship and apocalyptic financial gloom.

The one catch of this situation is that many of the jobs – English teaching, voice over work, acting, etc. – focus mainly on the person’s ability to be his or her own skin color and to be proficient in his native tongue, (not such a difficult task, most would say) rather than on what they bring to the table in terms of skill or experience.

Along with employment opportunities there is the financial advantage of comparatively low living costs. People that may have struggled to rent an apartment the size of a shoebox in a big city in their home country are able to rent comfortable apartments, eat out whenever they feel like it and even have an ayi to clear up after them, wash their clothes, and generally take care of them .

In addition to the concrete benefits of living in China, such as money and housing, there are also other aspects of living in China that appeal to some expats. Due to the relatively closed nature of China, foreigners are still on the fringes of society, rarely taking any role other than "observer". Being an observer rather than taking an active role is quite suited to the personalities of some expats, particularly those drawn to China. Some take this passivity to extremes, making little effort to learn the language and just relying on basics, grunting and hand gestures.

For many, it is a quite relaxing to be totally unaware of the conversations going on around them. Indeed, in my first year in China, with next to no language ability, I imagined Chinese people around me to be constantly dispensing pearls of ancient Chinese philosophical wisdom. Much to my dismay, when I learnt some more Chinese, that bubble burst and I came to realize that, unsurprisingly (in hindsight), monotonous conversations about which brand of snack food is best or which celebrity is dating which celebrity are just as rife in China as they are back home.

Fortunately, my disappointment at realizing that Chinese people are not the mysterious mythical creatures they are sometimes portrayed to be in pop culture and literature was outweighed by my new found satisfaction in learning to speak Chinese and read Chinese characters. This is another one of those factors that keeps people in China: once they begin the arduous but often rewarding task of learning Chinese, they feel that they cannot possibly leave until they have mastered it. Chinese being notoriously difficult to learn, this means that many who plan to be short term residents end up staying much longer than expected

Most people having been in China for any amount of time are familiar with the phrase "bad china day", which is ubiquitous in conversations amongst foreigners. The many challenges that people face as an expat in China add to a person’s sense of achievement when they overcome them. Living in China is a unique experience and full of highs and lows – it may be delightful, it may be maddening, but it’s never boring – for many this is a great draw and often one of the driving motivations behind their decision to stay in China for a number of years.
 

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Guest246506

I can't speak for every foreigner but frankly I can't wait to get out of this country. Unfortunately I've been stuck here for a couple of years because of family ties but I'm happy to say we're leaving soon. Where else in the world do people let their kids urinate and defecate in public...even on the sidewalk which, by the way, is almost as common as spitting. The pollution and traffic are horrible, there are repeated reports of food problems, people treat each other like dirt, and in large part lack very basic civilities and courtesy, despite having thousands of years of history. Why would anyone want to stay here?

Feb 22, 2013 13:03 Report Abuse

alex

Yes, I agree with you Owen, there are a lot of really devious foreigners here. They crawl to the Chinese Bosses to get what they want and stick the knife into other foreigners in the process. They cheat and lie, plagiarise and big note themselves. One thing I can say is that they will fall on their own sword as they think, they are untouchable. Remember if you do illegal things like; ladies of the night and drugs...be careful

Feb 13, 2012 02:44 Report Abuse

alex

Point proven! Good luck red thumbs!!

Feb 13, 2012 20:41 Report Abuse

dano

CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?

Did Rodney King write this drivel?

Feb 11, 2012 03:27 Report Abuse

cheapcoolshoes

the rest of what you said teach english in a foreign accent?? we should teach english in a chinese accent??? no one makes an issue of accents other than chinese. ignorance truly is the seed of racism. you make no sense what so ever.
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Feb 10, 2012 23:22 Report Abuse

cheapcoolshoes

Have you ever lived in Malaysia or the Phillipines? I bet that if you lived there for any length of time, you would find that you hated a lot of stuff they do too, and would keep telling them how backward they are and how much educating they need.

Feb 10, 2012 23:19 Report Abuse

MissA

I don't think its western pedagogical practices that result in the stewardesses being unintelligible. I really don't.

Feb 10, 2012 18:34 Report Abuse

jixiang

Have you ever lived in Malaysia or the Phillipines? I bet that if you lived there for any length of time, you would find that you hated a lot of stuff they do too, and would keep telling them how backward they are and how much educating they need.
And if you only went there for a brief holiday, that doesn't count.

Feb 10, 2012 21:51 Report Abuse

MissA

I've spent lots of time in SE Asia, and there is something to what you say. No country is perfect and any person in a new coutry will have issues to confront.

BUT...the region generally is quite different from China. Malaysia and Singapore, particularly, are full of well educated, sophisticated people who command the respect of the long term expats. It would be a brave or stupid person who would call your standard Singaporean, or peninsular Malaysian backwards! Can't say for the Philippines, its still on the bucket list.

Feb 11, 2012 01:43 Report Abuse

jixiang

Is this the same Malaysia where all ethnic Malays are considered to be Muslims by law and are obliged to follow the decision of Sharia courts on various issues, and are not allowed to change their religion by these same courts? How open, tollerant and progressive. Malaysia also has lower literacy rates than China according to the UN, talking about education and sophistication. And the Chinese and Indian minorities accuse the Malays of discriminating against them.

But of course there is an elite which speaks good English and is "Westernized", making expats feel more at home, and they don't even spit on the ground, so then all is good and well.

I am sure Malaysia has a lot of good points which China doesn't have by the way. But I am sure that China has its good points as well.

Feb 12, 2012 07:09 Report Abuse